My father has melanoma (skin cancer) and has recently been told it is stage IV and terminal. This blog is a record of his progress for family and friends.
Sunday, 7 November 2010
Busted
There was a bit of night-time activity last night. Mum told me that Dad sat upright in the middle of the night waking her; he explained he was checking the carpet was ok. She later got up to go to the loo but hurried back as Dad started shouting and he said quite seriously "Be careful the ground doesn't swallow you up" Dad is clearly much less well than he was a fortnight ago. He seems happy enough during the day reading the paper or listening to the radio in bed, but is alert enough to be a bit bored upstairs and mentions coming downstairs. Currently though we are worried that if we do manage to get him dressed and downstairs safely we may not manage to get him back upstairs. Dad has been quite chatty today. When he wants to talk i make sure i let him finish saying whatever he has to say. His voice is weak so you must listen carefully and he doesn't often make sense. Sometimes i tell him i don't understand and at other times i worry he will catch me out if i try to make a sensible response to something crazy he has said. This evening he gave me a funny look at just such an occasion and when i asked him why he was giving me that look he replied with a raised eyebrow "i think you are talking in riddles" Hmmm... that's me busted!
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Great to chat today. It will be fantastic when you can get the new bed downstairs so your Dad can be "part of the action". It will make everything so much more cohesive. Love you all xxxx
ReplyDeleteThank you Elizabeth for sending this update. Bronwen and I were pleased we were able to visit last week and to be with your parents. Bronwen was able to be of assistance to Alison in giving Tipsy her 'cocktail' of daily medicine! whilst I spent time with Bryan. I am glad that they are going to get a hospital bed. That will make things a lot easier. Give them our love. Love Jeremy and Bronwen
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