We need to drink more

A conversation with the nurses today worried us. It turns out that Dad isn't drinking nearly enough fluids. We do insist he has drinks throughout the day but obviously not enough. We are now to try to get him to drink at least half a glass of fluids every hour on the hour. 
The Macmillan nurse came again today and has confirmed the planned reduction of Dad's steroid dose. So from tomorrow he will be on 8mg of dexamethasone a day (down from 12mg a day last week) He was still ok on 8mg a day last time he was on that dose. It was only when it decreased beyond that dose that he declined so visibly. We will see what happens this time. We are expecting that with the reduction of steroids the swelling in his brain will increase and with it, his need for the morphine.
We got Dad out of bed today so that we could change his bedding. He was much weaker as we stood him up to transfer him to a chair. We were not really surprised as Dad has now been in bed for 13 days, but it was still shocking to be faced with it.

Scan news

This week Dad had a full body scan, the first since September and the completion of his radiotherapy. We have noticed over the past fortnight that he is increasingly tired, confused and headaches have returned, so feared the worst, but in fact although it revealed that the metastasis on his left side is growing (two months ago it was 4cm and it is now 6cm) it also showed that the whole brain radiotherapy has slightly reduced the size of the metastases in his brain. The oncologist, recognising the return of symptoms, has increased Dad's steroid dose again. He is now on 4mg of dexamethasone a day (originally put on 16mg a day back in August and since weaned down to 2mg a day week by week) This should reduce the swelling surrounding each metastasis in his brain, reducing the pressure on his brain and hopefully the symptoms. We were told Dad is not well enough for an operation  but he will be given radiotherapy for the metastasis on his left side.
Scans aside, Mum and Dad are doing well for cake at the moment, as their neighbour is kindly providing a regular supply of home-baked goodies. Dad has always had a sweet tooth, so he is very much enjoying this. He even has enough appetite to wolf down several at a time! Some golfing buddies came round and my cousin visited too with his girlfriend. Dad enjoys seeing people but gets tired quickly at the moment and zones-out a bit during conversations. Having said that, he was cheerful at lunch out on Saturday and when asked how the doctor's visit was he replied "He was very well thankyou!"